Dancing is such an important part of our lives; embedded as part of so many religions, a major part within so many cultures and our lifestyles… The wedding dance that a father does with his daughter or mother does with her son is considered a special prized and cherished moment to so many people, we look forward to this special Dance and then after remember with such deep care… Such a special moment with so much meaning for parent, grandparent and child…
Personally, I’m not one to often dance just for the joy of dance, use to only slow dance once in a great while with someone special… If I had deep feelings for that person, we can dance to music not heard by others, to a rhythm of the deep care and love shared…
A couple months ago while visiting my Mom who was fighting cancer, was up late night around 2am-ish, not being able to sleep and I shared a few hours just talking with her about memories shared that would bring her some laughter… We got talking about Dancing, something my grandmother who passed away had told me too- she had no regrets except one, to see me married and to have that extra special dance with her grandson…
Then Mom said she wished so deeply she could have this one dance too, that special Mother-Son Dance… She then told me that she had hoped to someday watch me get married and wanted to have that special dance that a mother has with her son… I tried not to think to this, and reaffirmed she would get healthy again and we would have that dance someday…
We both all teary eyed shared tissues together, till I got her laughing… I told her that I would only do a slow dance with her if she did another with me afterward, standing up showing her my funny dance – the “Uncle Chuck Dance”… I’d started doing this dance with and for my niece when she was barely able to walk, her baby body waddle to control balance just to stand and take those first few steps… Later she would shake her hinny to music in her little diaper, she would dance, swinging her butt around, and I started to imitate this balance act to the rhythm of the music… How my niece, Mom and sister laughed… It’s been now about 22 years that this dance has brought laughter to my family, even still to this day… At the time it was nice to hear my Mom laugh, when I knew even then she had so much pain…
I am still not married and that special moment is now something that will never happen except within my heart and memory…
Monday morning, we needed to bring in a special bed for Mom, so she needed to come out of her room while we took her bed down and brought in the special adjustable bed… Unfortunately she was in such deep pain get up to walk, she needed help…
Happily she recognized me with a large smile, as we often joked about she said; “My Favorite Son”, as I am the only son with two sisters- no competition- another joke we all enjoyed… She laughed for a moment as she put her arms around my neck, and I helped lift her to her feet… Slowly we danced without music, taking baby steps to where the wheelchair was at the doorway, my last dance with my Mom and seeing her smile, she now watches from heaven…
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Social Media Means Being Social with “Like”…
It’s nice to be noticed and also to know someone “Likes” your statement or viewpoint… There is something also nice and personal even, when someone that is in larger spotlights reads and “likes” your Post or Comment…
Now, I chat with lots of people, from all over the world, which is one of the best features of the internet since the internet first started growing out of the universities and colleges, when it was called eWorld… People I would never have the opportunity of meeting in my hometown without a stoplight from all sorts of professions and livelihoods… But every so often it’s nice to know your views are seen and appreciated… That is one thing that is nice about Facebook’s “Like” feature… You get a chance to see who “Likes” your Post and it’s an easy way to compliment or agree with a post you view and enjoy…
This morning I was doing my normal morning stuff, some Social Media while drinking a mug full of java, as I was getting my woodstove going better from the bed of coals left from the night… I was bouncing between Facebook and Twitter, reposting somethings of interest, commenting on others, when I noticed something about the Whitehouse having a live open forum on Facebook about Bullying…
http://www.facebook.com/WhiteHouse#!/WhiteHouse/posts/195747797115135
Now this subject I thought was a good thing and started looking at the comments… I felt it odd some people seemed to forget last year and the number of kids that had problems with Bullying and the number of deaths and suicides because of it, so made a comment…
A few minutes later, as I was reading some other FaceBook links, I noticed the little blue window in the corner of the screen saying someone “Liked” my comment… I glanced over, then did a double take, recognizing the name, so clicked back to the article… The person who “Liked” my comment was Mark Zuckerberg, founder of Facebook…
This is the main point of Social Media, the “Being Social“… A “Like” is like a Compliment or agreement… When someone “Likes” your comments, images, videos and links, it makes you feel good and to know someone as busy as Mark Zuckerberg spent some time and reads comments, then “Likes” that comment, it makes you feel noticed, when you think to the over 500 million subscribers using Facebook…
Being “Social” in Social Media is a point that many of the most respected people in Social Media talk and write about such as Liz Strauss, Chris Brogan, Gary Vaynerchuk and Scott Stratten to name a few… They all talk about “Being Social and Communicating using Social Media…
So next time your reading your Facebook listings, or an image, video and such and you see something you enjoy, Be Social- “Like” and Leave a Comment… You never know who might be reading your comments…
Also Very Important- Bullying!!!
The White house during the event, announced a new website for parents, students and teachers and those involved with children to help put a Stop to Bulling: http://stopbullying.gov/
Social Media Professionals I mentioned above and their Twitter Names & Sites:
Liz Strauss (Twitter: @lizstrauss)- http://www.successful-blog.com
Chris Brogan (Twitter: @chrisbrogan)- http://www.chrisbrogan.com
Gary Vaynerchuk (Twitter: @garyvee)- http://garyvaynerchuk.com
Scott Stratten (Twitter: @unmarketing)- http://www.un-marketing.com
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